I shouldn’t have to in order to make other people more comfortable around me or approaching me. Personally I’m a very serious individual with a high-stress job, two adopted kids w/no partner or husband, and I don’t always smile. I don’t consider myself a 10 by any means, but I encounter this a LOT. Somehow we came to a place where screwing your friends is how you make them. It’s social commentary on the sexual overdrive in the gay male community.